Mamdani's wife skips America's 250th birthday for $3,400 Islamic retreat in Spain

By Alex Tanzer, 
updated on July 5, 2026

While New York City marked the 250th anniversary of American independence over the Fourth of July weekend, Mayor Zohran Mamdani's wife was boarding an eight-hour flight to a Mediterranean island for a sold-out Islamic spiritual retreat that costs $3,400 per guest.

Rama Duwaji flew from Newark International Airport to Palma, Mallorca, on Monday to co-host "Plants Of The Quran | 6th Edition," a retreat organized by The Women Sanctuary, Fox News Digital reported. Conservative commentator Arynne Wexler posted photos on X showing Duwaji at a United Airlines gate before departure.

The timing drew immediate political criticism. Mamdani himself stayed in New York, delivering a speech at City Hall on July 3 to mark the semiquincentennial. His wife headed for the Spanish coast.

A retreat centered on the Quran, while America celebrated its founding

The retreat, listed as sold out on The Women Sanctuary's website, is described as centered on plants mentioned in the Quran, olives, pomegranates, dates, and figs, with workshops, meals, and spiritual reflection. Duwaji serves as "artist in residence" for the organization, Just The News reported, identifying The Women Sanctuary as a for-profit enterprise.

The trip doesn't end in Mallorca. Duwaji is also scheduled to co-host a second sold-out retreat in Corsica, France, from July 9 through July 14, according to the New York Post. That means the mayor's wife will be abroad for an extended stretch surrounding the biggest patriotic holiday in a generation.

No one from Duwaji's camp or the mayor's office offered an explanation for the trip's timing. Fox News Digital reached out to Mamdani's office for comment and did not receive an immediate response.

City Council Republicans don't hold back

Queens Councilwoman Joann Ariola, a Republican, put it bluntly. As Breitbart reported:

"Nothing says 'America 250' quite like skipping the celebration for a Mediterranean vacation, but I am not surprised because she has made her hatred for America very evident."

Ariola's reference to Duwaji's record is not new. The mayor's wife has faced scrutiny over deleted social media posts that reportedly praised Palestinian terror groups and attacked U.S. service members. She later apologized, though critics noted the apology was vague about what she had actually said.

Staten Island Councilman Frank Morano, also a Republican, struck a more measured tone but still landed the point:

"It's disappointing that the First Lady chose to be overseas instead of taking part in one of the biggest civic events our city and country will mark this year."

Morano added that nobody objects to vacations for elected officials and their families. But he called this "a moment to show up for the city and for the country, and she missed it."

The AC contrast that won't go away

The optics get worse when you factor in what was happening back in New York. On July 1, Mamdani's office announced that the city was expanding cooling centers, extending pool hours, and asking businesses and New Yorkers to set their thermostats to 78 degrees during peak demand amid a punishing heat wave.

That directive drew its own firestorm of criticism from Republicans who said the mayor was lecturing working-class New Yorkers about air conditioning while offering little relief.

Wexler connected the dots in her X post:

"Funny how when @ZohranKMamdani was telling New Yorkers to lower their AC his wife Rama Duwaji was boarding a flight to party in Mallorca."

The image is hard to shake. Families in sweltering apartments were told to sweat it out at 78 degrees. The mayor's wife was en route to a Mediterranean island for a $3,400-per-head retreat. That kind of gap between what leaders demand of ordinary people and how their own households behave is the sort of thing voters remember.

Mamdani's office did confirm one detail to the Post: Duwaji was not accompanied by officers from the couple's taxpayer-funded NYPD security detail. That at least spares taxpayers the cost of sending police overseas to guard a spiritual wellness retreat in Spain. Whether any other public resources were used for the trip remains unclear.

A pattern, not a one-off

Duwaji's critics argue this isn't an isolated lapse in judgment. Her social media history has been a recurring liability for the Mamdani administration. Beyond the deleted posts about U.S. service members and Palestinian militant groups, she has faced separate scrutiny over Spotify playlists containing anti-Israel tracks with inflammatory content. Each episode reinforces the same question: does the mayor's wife view the country her husband governs a city for with the respect the role demands?

Mamdani himself used his July 3 City Hall speech to mark the 250th anniversary, though the Post noted he took the occasion to criticize capitalism and foreign wars. That framing may play well in certain progressive circles. It does not exactly project pride in the American founding that the semiquincentennial was meant to honor.

The mayor's office has not explained whether Duwaji was expected at any official America 250 events. It has not clarified whether the trip was privately funded. And it has not addressed the broader question of why the city's first lady chose a Quran-themed botanical retreat over the biggest national celebration in fifty years.

Open questions the mayor's office has not answered

Several basic facts remain unaddressed. Was Duwaji scheduled to attend any city-sponsored semiquincentennial events? Who funded the travel? Did the mayor's office know about the trip in advance and approve its timing? None of these questions have received public answers.

The silence is its own kind of statement. When the criticism is this predictable, and this easy to anticipate, the decision to go anyway suggests either indifference to public opinion or a calculation that the mayor's political base simply doesn't care.

That may be true in the short term. Mamdani governs a city where progressive voters vastly outnumber conservatives, and cultural criticism from Republican council members rarely moves the needle in citywide politics. But the AC-at-78 episode already showed that voters across the spectrum have a low tolerance for leaders who preach sacrifice while their own families live differently.

Adding an overseas luxury retreat to that ledger doesn't help.

What the trip says about priorities

America 250 was not a minor civic footnote. Cities across the country planned months of events. New York, the city where George Washington took the oath of office, had particular reason to mark the occasion. The mayor showed up. His wife flew to Spain.

Nobody begrudges a private citizen her faith or her travel. Morano said as much. But when you are the spouse of the mayor of the largest city in the United States, and the nation is celebrating a once-in-a-generation milestone, your choices carry public weight. Choosing a $3,400 Islamic retreat in Mallorca over the Fourth of July in New York City is a statement, whether Duwaji intended it as one or not.

Leaders ask citizens to sacrifice, turn down the AC, ride out the heat, show up for your city. The least their families can do is act like they believe in the country they're asking everyone else to endure the summer for.

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